ANONYMITY: THE SPIRITUAL FOUNDATION OF THE SA 12-STEP PROGRAM
In practicing the spiritual principle of anonymity, we respect each other’s anonymity at meetings by not repeating outside the meeting whom we saw or what a particular person said at the meeting.
Likewise, if we see someone in a meeting whom we know in another context, we respect their anonymity by not talking about non-Program matters with them at the meeting.
In Public
We practice anonymity outside a meeting when we see an SA program friend in a public place. We refrain from saying hello if the situation would require explaining to a third person how we know each other.
Further, we practice anonymity in one-on-one conversations with other members of the SA Fellowship when we need to discuss issues involving a third person. Unless the matter involves an SA group or SA as a program, we simply do not identify the person we are talking about.
If you are concerned about a situation where someone has broken SA anonymity, you can request a meeting to address the matter. This meeting will provide an opportunity to openly discuss and review the specific events that have raised concerns. During the meeting, we will collectively examine the details and context of the situation, ensuring that everyone’s perspective is heard and considered. Through thoughtful and prayerful discussion, we will aim to reach a group conscience decision. This decision will guide us in determining the most appropriate and constructive actions to take. Our goal is to address the matter in a way that upholds the principles of our fellowship and supports the well-being of all involved. in fellowship hope to find a solution that is both helpful and respectful by working together. We aim to maintain the integrity of our anonymity while fostering a supportive and understanding environment.
Addiction to pornography refers to a compulsion to use pornographic images to the extent that the behavior itself has begun to interfere with a person’s ability to effectively manage his or her life on a day-to-day basis. The individual has become dependent on the use of pornography to get through each day. Porn Addiction Help can be here.
Like other addictions, pornography addiction can lead to negative consequences such as decreased productivity, social isolation, relationship problems, and financial difficulties. Individuals suffering from pornography addiction may spend excessive amounts of time viewing pornography, may find themselves unable to controlling this behavior, may experience withdrawal symptoms when trying to quit, and will often continue to use despite negative consequences.
For years I have struggled with the pendulum swinging from extreme to extreme with regard to my internet habits. One moment I could be reading about improving my health and the next moment I would be scouring the web for yet another image for my lust to entertain some fantasy in my head. The great fork in the road usually is shame that leads me down this path. I often think the only thing that will make me feel better is another lust hit to get me through the day.
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We have found that, in our attempts to break free of our addiction to pornography, we simply cannot successfully do so alone and in isolation from others with the same addiction.
In Sexaholics Anonymous, we have found a group of individuals who have continued walking with us, helping us find peace, serenity, and an increasing freedom, on a daily basis, from our compulsive and obsessive addiction to pornography and other addictive behaviors.
What is Sexaholics Anonymous (SA)?
Sexaholics Anonymous (SA) is a twelve-step program designed to help people struggling with compulsive sexual behavior, including addiction to pornography, masturbation, and other sexual activities. SA is based on the same principles as Alcoholics Anonymous and other twelve-step programs and operates on the belief that sexual addiction is a disease that can be managed but not cured. The program encourages members to work through the steps, attend meetings, and connect with a sponsor who can provide guidance and support. SA also emphasizes the importance of abstinence from sexual behaviors that are harmful or disruptive to a member’s life. Overall, SA aims to provide a safe and supportive community where individuals can work toward recovery from their compulsive sexual behavior.
SA is based on the same principles as Alcoholics Anonymous and other twelve-step programs It operates on the belief that sexual addiction is a disease that can be managed but not cured. The program encourages members to work through the steps, attend meetings, and connect with a sponsor who can provide guidance and support. SA also emphasizes the importance of abstinence from sexual behaviors that are harmful or disruptive to a member’s life.
Is SA right for my porn addiction?
The best place to start is by taking the following 20 question quiz.
Questions for a Newcomer
Have you ever thought you needed help for your sexual thinking or behavior?
That you’d be better off if you didn’t keep “giving in”?
That sex or stimuli are controlling you?
Have you ever tried to stop or limit doing what you felt was wrong in your sexual behavior?
Do you resort to sex to escape, relieve anxiety, or because you can’t cope?
Do you feel guilt, remorse or depression afterward?
Has your pursuit of sex become more compulsive?
Does it interfere with relations with your spouse?
Do you have to resort to images or memories during sex?
Does an irresistible impulse arise when the other party makes the overtures or sex is offered?
Do you keep going from one “relationship” or lover to another?
Do you feel the “right relationship” would help you stop lusting, masturbating, or being so promiscuous?
Do you have a destructive need — a desperate sexual or emotional need for someone?
Does pursuit of sex make you careless for yourself or the welfare of your family or others?
Has your effectiveness or concentration decreased as sex has become more compulsive?
Do you lose time from work for it?
Do you turn to a lower environment when pursuing sex?
Do you want to get away from the sex partner as soon as possible after the act?
Although your spouse is sexually compatible, do you still masturbate or have sex with others?
Have you ever been arrested for a sex-related offense?